Yeah you should make the jump if not seeing transphobia is your goal. lemmyML is a great omni-instance but as a result you’re going to be exposed to a lot of right-wing bullshit. And really, transphobia on blahj? That’s extremely disappointing but not all that surprising.
Kind of shares the same problem I had with Mobilizon in that none of the current instances are in my region, or my language for that matter.