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Cake day: October 18th, 2023

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  • We do mostly this but each have a spending account that we get fun money paid into each week. We use those accounts if either of us wants an expensive toy, buying presents, going out for work drinks or buying lunch while at work instead of bring left overs. Both pays go to the main account, all groceries and bills come out of the main account.

    I guess I think that at some point you just need to go all in on your relationship. If you’re keeping things seperate in case you break up, you’re kind of planning for it to not be a permanent thing. Why bother getting married if that’s the case?