• RightHandOfIkaros@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    I’ve been cheated on, even falsely accused of stuff after because she was such a petty narcissist, but even after all of that I would never wish physical harm on her. Thats terrible. Yeah, she created a mess of her own choice, and I have to deal with the permanent reputation damage and emotional damage, but that doesn’t mean I would want her to be in a car crash, much less incapacitated or put into a coma.

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    5 months ago

    have to hide my smile and glee so I don’t look like a psychopath

    I can’t for the life of me figure out why his gf would cheat on him. He sounds like such an honorable fellow.

  • TheKMAP@lemmynsfw.com
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    5 months ago

    It’s understandable to want bad thing to happen to bad people. But where I lost empathy for OOP was when he got sad about her banging a bunch of dudes long after the breakup. It implies he feels like she belongs to him forever, or something.

    • ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world
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      5 months ago

      How the fuck do you get that take from all of this?

      I haven’t been with my ex for a couple years now and would still feel uncomfortable finding out she went on a dick spree.

      Like y’all will come up with any reason to make a hurt dude look even more pathetic than they already do. Just cause you ain’t with a person anymore doesn’t mean you don’t still want to be or that you’re okay with them fucking other people.

      If he had tried to punish her for it or some shit like that it’d be one thing but honestly the biggest loser in this story is the friends that told him in the first place.

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      5 months ago

      Oh please. If it was announced tomorrow that a conservative elected official was in a coma, 99.98% of Lemmy would use it as jerk off material.

      • FozzyOsbourne@lemm.ee
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        5 months ago

        Too many people can’t get out of the us vs them mindset. They think it’s OK to wish horrors on the enemy because the enemy is evil and they are good, ignoring the fact that the enemy feels the same way about them.